* metal : implement soft_max_ext
* cuda : implement soft_max_ext
* ggml : implement soft_max_ext (CPU)
* batched-bench : print threads
ggml-ci
* metal : simplify soft_max encoding
ggml-ci
* cuda : use 512 threads for soft_max instead of 32
* ggml : update soft max cpu
* cuda : do warp-based block reduce
* cuda : increase max block size to 1024
* cuda : fix warp reduction initialization of shared mem
* metal : warp-based reduction for soft max kernel
* metal : warp-based reduce for rms_norm
* metal : simplify soft max kernel
ggml-ci
* alloc : fix build with debug
* Extend llama_kv_cache_seq_rm to allow matichng any sequence
* Replace llama_kv_cache_tokens_rm with llama_kv_cache_clear
Use llama_kv_cache_clear for cache clearing
Change calls to llama_kv_cache_tokens_rm that want to delete by position to use llama_kv_cache_seq_rm functionality
